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Tips on How to Be A Nice Person And Raise Your Attractor Factor

I speak frequently on this blog about the benefits of being nice and how this can raise your attractor factor. Your attractor factor is all about your ability to raise your vibrational level to attract great things in your life . Make yourself into a magnetic being so that  wealth, love, happiness and more are attracted into your life easily and effortlessly.

A very easy way to raise your attractor factor is simply to be nice. When you are nice, happy and friendly, others wish to be around you. The positive energy you put out there attracts others to you. This then makes others want to help you in many ways. In my every day life I notice a severe shortage of nice people. It seems as if people are missing the very simple, basic concepts of being nice and attracting happy people and circumstances into their life as a result. Being nice works, period! I know from my experience traveling the world and interacting with hundreds of different people. Being nice leaves a memorable impression on others which always returns to you in many positive ways.

Here are my top tips on how to be a nice person:

Smile When You Greet Others and Ask How they Are

Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.  ~Mother Teresa

While this seems pretty simple and straightforward do you know how many people don’t do this one simple thing? Being friendly in this way opens up so many avenues for conversation. You immediately disarm a person when you give them a smile and ask how they are. You let them know you are happy to see them and care enough to ask after them. Smiley, happy, friendly people attract smiley, happy, friendly circumstances!

Use Your Manners

Manners are free and the most powerful way for you to receive great rewards for nothing!! Please and thank you go a long way. I rarely hear people say it anymore, especially our youth. This is something we encourage in Kalyra constantly and we always receive comments from others about her lovely manners. It brightens peoples day when you show them this small bit of recognition and they remember you forever because of it. Manners makes a lasting impression.

Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others.  If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter which fork you use.  ~Emily Post

Ask others about their life, listen and respond

If you want others to like and remember you then spend time getting to know them. Ask questions about their life and then listen. Let them know you are interested in what they have to say. Make encouraging comments and smile in your interaction with them. I grew up as a very shy and insecure person. I never knew what to say to people. I overcame this by putting all the responsibility on others. I simply asked a lot of questions about the person I was conversing with and their life. I allowed them to talk and I filled in the gaps. Not only did this develop strong social skills in me but it gave the person I was talking to a sense of importance. People love talking about their lives and they love people who show an interest in them.

Praise and Encourage

Give people simple statements of praise and encouragement. Find something to compliment them on. It’s easy “I like the way…..” “You’re hair looks great!” “That’s a cool way of thinking” “Awesome” Good On Ya” You rock!” and the list goes on. People will remember you when you do small things like this. You will be the one they will turn to when they need a boost of encouragement. You’ll be the one they will want to hang out with as you will make them feel good.

Be Lighthearted

Bring laughter into your conversations with others as much as you can. Laughter equals joy and there is no higher emotion. Make your interactions with others light-hearted and fun. Forget about moaning and complaining about others and your circumstances. This never makes anything better and just drains the energy from those listening to you. Talk about fun and interesting things and just kid around. Life is far too serious, bring some release for others with your positive and light hearted conversations. It’s far easier to praise, encourage  and smile from this state also.

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Joy and Love: The Place Where Magic Happens

Today’s free daily inspiration is about putting you in a space of joy and love as this is where the magic happens. There’s no better place to allow magic to happen then when you experience love and joy. Use every opportunity to place yourself in this space of inspiration. Raise your vibrational level and you will attract so much magic in your life.

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Image of Kalyra Makepeace

Our song of the week Dream Catch me is a great song to put you in a space of joy and love and to remind you to be whoever you want and do anything you want to do. The song is put to video clips of our beautiful daughter Kalyra who always lives from a place of pure joy and love. She reminds us daily how to be free, joyful and just to be yourself.

Spend time with a child and live a truthful life is a post I wrote based on the lessons I’ve learned from my wise little teacher Kalyra.

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3 Simple Healthy Living Tips

Watch today’s daily inspirational message for 3 simple healthy living tips that you can start applying today and begin seeing benefits immediately. Following these tips for healthy living will give you more energy and make you feel great. This is so important as a healthier you raises your vibrational levels which means you attract more joy in your life. More joy in your life gives you an inspired life and from that comes a life of purpose!

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