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Tips on How to Be A Nice Person And Raise Your Attractor Factor

I speak frequently on this blog about the benefits of being nice and how this can raise your attractor factor. Your attractor factor is all about your ability to raise your vibrational level to attract great things in your life . Make yourself into a magnetic being so that  wealth, love, happiness and more are attracted into your life easily and effortlessly.

A very easy way to raise your attractor factor is simply to be nice. When you are nice, happy and friendly, others wish to be around you. The positive energy you put out there attracts others to you. This then makes others want to help you in many ways. In my every day life I notice a severe shortage of nice people. It seems as if people are missing the very simple, basic concepts of being nice and attracting happy people and circumstances into their life as a result. Being nice works, period! I know from my experience traveling the world and interacting with hundreds of different people. Being nice leaves a memorable impression on others which always returns to you in many positive ways.

Here are my top tips on how to be a nice person:

Smile When You Greet Others and Ask How they Are

Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.  ~Mother Teresa

While this seems pretty simple and straightforward do you know how many people don’t do this one simple thing? Being friendly in this way opens up so many avenues for conversation. You immediately disarm a person when you give them a smile and ask how they are. You let them know you are happy to see them and care enough to ask after them. Smiley, happy, friendly people attract smiley, happy, friendly circumstances!

Use Your Manners

Manners are free and the most powerful way for you to receive great rewards for nothing!! Please and thank you go a long way. I rarely hear people say it anymore, especially our youth. This is something we encourage in Kalyra constantly and we always receive comments from others about her lovely manners. It brightens peoples day when you show them this small bit of recognition and they remember you forever because of it. Manners makes a lasting impression.

Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others.  If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter which fork you use.  ~Emily Post

Ask others about their life, listen and respond

If you want others to like and remember you then spend time getting to know them. Ask questions about their life and then listen. Let them know you are interested in what they have to say. Make encouraging comments and smile in your interaction with them. I grew up as a very shy and insecure person. I never knew what to say to people. I overcame this by putting all the responsibility on others. I simply asked a lot of questions about the person I was conversing with and their life. I allowed them to talk and I filled in the gaps. Not only did this develop strong social skills in me but it gave the person I was talking to a sense of importance. People love talking about their lives and they love people who show an interest in them.

Praise and Encourage

Give people simple statements of praise and encouragement. Find something to compliment them on. It’s easy “I like the way…..” “You’re hair looks great!” “That’s a cool way of thinking” “Awesome” Good On Ya” You rock!” and the list goes on. People will remember you when you do small things like this. You will be the one they will turn to when they need a boost of encouragement. You’ll be the one they will want to hang out with as you will make them feel good.

Be Lighthearted

Bring laughter into your conversations with others as much as you can. Laughter equals joy and there is no higher emotion. Make your interactions with others light-hearted and fun. Forget about moaning and complaining about others and your circumstances. This never makes anything better and just drains the energy from those listening to you. Talk about fun and interesting things and just kid around. Life is far too serious, bring some release for others with your positive and light hearted conversations. It’s far easier to praise, encourage  and smile from this state also.

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Let Your Light Shine: You Deserve It

Play our Song of the Week and think about how awesome you are. You deserve it!

Today’s free daily inspiration shares some wisdom and inspiration from Johnny Wimbrey, who isone of our favorite motivational teachers. Johnny has an

inspirational story which you can read in his book “From the Hood to doing Good”

Johnny encourages you to always let your light shine because you deserve it! Don’t spend your time justifying your wins and success as you just catching a lucky break so that others won’t feel insecure around you. Let your light shine by saying “I deserve it! I deserve it because I did whatever it took to be a success story”

You definitely deserve it! All the good in your life is there because you deserve it period. There is no luck involved and you don’t have to worry about shrinking so that others won’t feel insecure. Celebrate this and Let your light shine.

Johnny Wimbrey gives some valuable words of wisdom

Hang around people who celebrate you not tolerate you!

It’s easier to let your light shine when you do this. Read more here:

Hang around people who celebrate you and empower you.

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You Are Powerful Beyond Measure

Watch today’s daily inspiration for an empowering quote from Marianne Williamson “Our Deepest Fear”

Our Deepest Fear is not that we are inadequate
Our Deepest Fear is that we are

Powerful Beyond Measure

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us
Your playing small does not serve the world
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that
other people won’t feel insecure around you

We are all meant to shine as children do
It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone
And as we let our own light shine
We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same

As we are liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.

Marianne Williamson

This is one of my favorite Coach Carter quotes, written by Marianne Williamson. You are powerful beyond measure and it’s so important that you allow yourself permission to shine and unconsciously do the same for others. You can read more of my thoughts on how to let your light shine at my wealth and happiness blog.

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